[Poll #1173206]
Anything else to say about "old maid" as unpopped popcorn kernels? Comment!
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The OED definition of "old maid"
SlangCity's definition
Urban Dictionary's definition
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Anything else to say about "old maid" as unpopped popcorn kernels? Comment!
Ref:
The OED definition of "old maid"
SlangCity's definition
Urban Dictionary's definition
An archived discussion about this topic
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Date: 2008-04-18 03:16 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-04-18 03:57 pm (UTC)old maid
Date: 2008-04-18 05:29 pm (UTC)Re: old maid
Date: 2008-04-18 06:04 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-04-18 10:09 pm (UTC)Describing something that doesn't fulfill it's purpose as an old never-married woman (or more technically an older woman that is still a virgin) is rather offense I'll agree, and it's why I don't use the term despite the fact that my entire family did.
On the flip side, based on the purpose of communication, it's important to keep in mind the idea of what a person is trying to express, and not focus on the way they express it. Emotional responses on the part of the receiver that cloud the meaning of communication are at least as much the responsibility of the receiver to deal with as they are the responsibility of the sender of the communication.
It's amazing how much less insulting the world as a whole is if you focus on what people mean, not what they say.
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Date: 2008-04-19 12:53 am (UTC)Which is to say, it doesn't really come up a lot as even when I'm eating popcorn I don't really feel a need to refer to unpopped kernels by their own term. But if such a need arose, I would probably use that phrase.
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Date: 2008-04-21 05:00 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-04-21 07:45 pm (UTC)For years I had heard the phrase Old Maid in the context of the card game or an old, and now, "unmarriable" woman. And yes, I think it's an offensive view.
It wasn't until much more recently that I heard it in regards to popcorn. I personally would call them duds or the like.
At my job we have various training materials in regards to design of experiments. One example involves popcorn, and we refer to the unpopped kernels as bullets.
Brian